One of the realities of living in the Canadian Rockies is that there is lots of driving to get chores done. When we want to go to a larger town to take advantage of sales at a Walmart or Superstore to stock up on supplies, it's a three hour round trip.
When we go to the "big" town, we make a day of it. We do our shopping, then enjoy a take out meal in the truck at our favourite picnic spot. We walk the dog on paths in the lovely wetlands, listening to the ducks as they warn each other as we approach.
An issue we've noticed of late is that larger towns have big city problems. You turn a corner and discover that someone is sitting on a piece of cardboard, staring at the ground. This is CANADA, where winter cold is bone numbing at the best of times.
It's an unfortunate reality that many of these folks have addiction and/or mental health issues. At night, the desperation in their eyes becomes terrifying.
If you read my September blog, you were introduced to my late dear friend Olga. I miss her more as each day passes. Many years ago, we were having one of our deep conversations. I was ranting about someone, listing all of the reasons I had to take offense, when Olga gently said, "Lori, God made them too." Ouch...that statement punched its way into my heart and burrowed itself good and deep.
So the challenge I have and am now presenting to you, is that when you see one of these broken souls, pummeled by the wind as well as humanity, I ask that you say a prayer, (or "think a good thought" if that's what you prefer) It doesn't have to be dramatic; perhaps simply, "I hope they can't feel the cold in their bones today".
This is the season of "on earth peace, good will towards men." While we can't fix those who are broken, perhaps a moment of compassion will thaw a frozen heart.
OK...one addition to the challenge: after you've bought your Grinch socks and your cupcakes topped with tree shaped sprinkles, I ask that you dig in your pockets and find money. Put it into the Salvation Army bucket, as you smile at the shivering person standing outside the store ringing the bells, volunteering their time for charity. You say you only shop with your Debit card? Use the ATM before heading to the exit. I implore you.
Thank you for spending this time with me,
Lori xx